"Many men have openly shared with me that they'd love to 'make a marriage right this time.'" Andrea, 47, who met her husband on Christian Mingle.com, experienced this phenomenon first-hand.
If you’ve never had kids, you still think the world revolves around you. Put the coconut water on the top shelf by mistake and thought he was going to collapse in his granite perfection of a kitchen in a full on seizure. Being married before means you are brave enough to make a commitment. Don’t believe their professions that they just haven’t found “someone”. Leave these men to embarrass themselves and date cocktail waitresses who are 22. His entire refrigerator was categorized by shelves with its own Excel spreadsheet. I dated one man who whined about how women didn’t understand him, that everyone he cared for left him. All the women with any intelligence and self worth did leave when they figured out he was a narcissistic asswipe with the emotional maturity of a five year old. If there was or is ongoing animosity, however, his ex-wife may become a third party in your relationship, whether you ever actually meet her or not.This is especially true if there are children involved. Being a parent teaches you that lots of crappy little stuff happens but as long as everyone gets home in one piece, it’s a good day. Maybe we failed miserably but we took the walk down the aisle, threw the wedding bouquet and put ourselves in debt to have a kick ass party.